Most of us have read our share of erotica. Orgasms are described as the ultimate pleasure for women. Hell yeah! However, female orgasms are also portrayed as the easiest task and can be achieved in multiples. This may or may not be true. Since, many women never experienced their big O, in real life. They also wonder if this ultimate pleasure will forever remain as a fiction, for them. Fear not ladies, there are other ways to help you shake hands with your climax.
Orgasm and what it means:
Before we dive in, let’s make the meaning of an orgasm clear. “An orgasm is a physical reflex that occurs when muscles tighten during sexual arousal and then relax through a series of rhythmic contractions,” Sherry Ross told Health. She is an ob-gyn from California. She said that every climax is different from one another in terms of duration and intensity. It depends on which part of your body is aroused and how. Other than just a physical release, it also gives us an emotional one. Meaning, it allows us to feel emotionally closer to our partner or just release stress from your tough day.
There some types of orgasms which focus on the vagina itself. However, there are others that let you feel earth-shattering intense pleasure, in places you never once considered as erogenous zones.
Types of the big O:
Your clit is the best spot for several women when they feel like experiencing the release and pleasure of their orgasm. “The clitoris is a very sensitive part of a woman’s anatomy, composed of millions of nerve endings similar to that of the penis,” told Dr. Ross.
Fingers, small vibrator or palm can help you get a clitoral orgasm. Make sure your clitoris is wet and start rubbing gently in up and down motions or in a side. Repeat the motion harder and faster, when it starts to feel good. When the pleasure intensifies, add more pressure to help you get over the edge.
2. G-spot Orgasm:
G-spot is the front wall of your vagina, in between your cervix and vaginal opening. It’s nothing you can see, but easily felt when a finger is inserted. “When you’re sexually aroused, the G-spot will fill with blood and swell up,” said Dr. Ross.
A slightly ridged or bumpy area is detected, when you stimulate it. Also for certain women, the feeling is spongy. Stroking and pressing gently with fingers, or sex toy, will lead to a G-spot orgasm that is described as a deep, intense and earth-shattering climax experience.
3. Anal Orgasm:
Anal sex is not every woman’s fantasy. Some wish to give it a shot and others are set dead against it. For the ones who fall under the former category, an anal orgasm is definitely something you try.
Use your fingers to apply sufficient lube around your hole and massage it. This will also prepare you for butt games. Massage the inside and outside of the opening, then very gently and slowly insert your finger or sex toy up your anus. First do a gentle in and out movement, then start doing circular motions slowly. Keep alternating and up the pace as the pleasure starts building.
4. Combo Orgasm:
Combining the vaginal and clitoral stimulation at the same time will give you a combo orgasm. Perform it in either opposite or parallel rhythms, whichever feels good for you. Female ejaculation is also achieved through this most common approach. This is because, G-spot is engaged and the clit is stimulated.
Use both of your hands to increase the pleasure intensity by double. You can even use both fingers and sex toys. For instance, rabbit vibrators will stimulate your vag and clit at the same time, and are the best way to reach climax by combo orgasm. Make it parallel movements, or a fast clit action and slow vaginal penetration.
5. Climax through erogenous zones:
Our bodies are truly made for pleasurable bliss. Ears, neck and lower back are fully rich in nerve endings that are erotically charged. No one can really tell which body part will drive you to the edge. However, all of us have those sweet spots and discovering them is totally worth it.
Pick a silky scarf or a feather. Use it on the most sensitive areas of your body. Relax and strip down to nothing. Focus on every single tingly bliss. Note these spots and experiment with various sensations, such as pinching/squeezing. Practice makes a man perfect, so keep up with it, and see how far it can take you.
So wait no more and get down to business ladies. Your body deserves to experience every pleasure it can. Have fun!
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